{"id":1518,"date":"2017-10-23T17:15:58","date_gmt":"2017-10-23T22:15:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beckypalmer.thecomputerguy.bz\/?p=1518"},"modified":"2017-10-22T19:56:52","modified_gmt":"2017-10-23T00:56:52","slug":"further-musings-from-my-trip-to-mn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/?p=1518","title":{"rendered":"Further musings from my trip to MN"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I wrote about some of the best information I took away from the Minnesota Blogger Conference.\u00a0 This week I&#8217;m sharing some of my more personal takeaways from that weekend- the ones that were unexpected and not necessarily related to blogging at all.<\/p>\n<p>#1 College days are special and too often taken for granted.\u00a0 This conference was held at Concordia College in St. Paul.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a beautiful campus.\u00a0 \u00a0 I was immediately transported back to my own college days both at Bethany and the University of Minnesota.\u00a0 \u00a0MY LORD was I an idiot back then!\u00a0 If I could do it all again I would do so many things differently.\u00a0 So, if you have a child in college (or if you are the rare young adult who reads this) remind them how lucky they are and to take advantage of that amazing time in life.<\/p>\n<p>#2 I have an amazing husband.\u00a0 NO, this is not news to me, but 2 very specific moments really drove it home to me.\u00a0 The first is when I was asked why he wasn&#8217;t there with me.\u00a0 I answered that because he&#8217;s not a blogger.\u00a0 But there was still question marks on the face of the person who asked, clearly not understanding how\/ why I would go away for a weekend alone.\u00a0 The second was when I was leaving the conference for the day, I sent a quick text to Pat to let him know.\u00a0 He asked how my day went and was SO supportive when I told him about the great day I&#8217;d had.\u00a0 He really wants to see me happy and fulfilled\u00a0in my own way and on my own terms and he loves my independence and I feel the same about him.\u00a0 We are an amazing team I could not ask for a better partner.<\/p>\n<p>#3 I am the most comfortable I have ever been in my own skin.\u00a0 I am perfectly comfortable going to a conference alone.\u00a0 Going out to eat alone.\u00a0 Staying in a hotel alone.\u00a0 I&#8217;m comfortable talking to strangers.\u00a0 Speaking up in a group discussion.\u00a0 I have made a ton of progress from a year ago and I&#8217;m very proud of that.<\/p>\n<p>#4 There is no place like home!\u00a0 I am truly a small town girl.\u00a0 I have no idea how people live in big cities.\u00a0 I have no idea how I lived in St Paul myself in my (much) younger days.\u00a0 \u00a0Traffic is one of the most ridiculous things humans have invented and I want no part of it in my daily life.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s amazing what you can learn at a conference &#8211;\u00a0 especially the things you weren&#8217;t expecting!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I wrote about some of the best information I took away from the Minnesota Blogger Conference.\u00a0 This week I&#8217;m sharing some of my more personal takeaways from that weekend- the ones that were unexpected and not necessarily related to blogging at all. #1 College days are special and too often taken for granted.\u00a0 This conference was held at&#8230; 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