{"id":1890,"date":"2018-05-28T17:00:40","date_gmt":"2018-05-28T22:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beckypalmer.thecomputerguy.bz\/?p=1890"},"modified":"2018-05-27T17:30:43","modified_gmt":"2018-05-27T22:30:43","slug":"its-getting-old","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/?p=1890","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s Getting Old"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s getting old- this having to defend my position on any &#8220;hot button&#8221; topic.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t get me wrong- I&#8217;m all for debate and the exchange of ideas when it&#8217;s done in a calm, respectful position. I often state that I want, in fact welcome, commentary and I truly mean that as long as it&#8217;s done in a mature manner.<\/p>\n<p>However, we live in a country and a world where having a mature conversation about anything of substance is almost impossible.\u00a0 I have forced to unfollowed \/ unfriended people I&#8217;ve known for decades on social media for their inability to put forth their viewpoints in ways that are respectful, tasteful, or even coherent.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve been attacked online by people I thought I knew well simply for having a different position than them on a complex social issue.<\/p>\n<p>Today we honor all the brave men and women who paid the ultimate price defending our country.\u00a0 I wonder what the brave souls who died at Normandy or in Vietnam, or anywhere else would think of what this country&#8217;s become.\u00a0 They deserve better than what we are today, that&#8217;s for sure.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s getting old- this having to defend my position on any &#8220;hot button&#8221; topic.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t get me wrong- I&#8217;m all for debate and the exchange of ideas when it&#8217;s done in a calm, respectful position. 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