{"id":1946,"date":"2018-07-09T17:15:51","date_gmt":"2018-07-09T22:15:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beckypalmer.thecomputerguy.bz\/?p=1946"},"modified":"2018-07-08T14:48:58","modified_gmt":"2018-07-08T19:48:58","slug":"why","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/?p=1946","title":{"rendered":"WHY???????"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have noticed a disturbing trend on social media- mostly Facebook- that I am truly struggling to understand.\u00a0 I know that I&#8217;m not the only person who&#8217;s noticed it, but no one I&#8217;ve mentioned it to seems to have any kind of explanation for it, so I&#8217;m putting it out for public discussion in the hopes of making some sense of this.<\/p>\n<p>The phenomenon in question is this-\u00a0 Why is it that the folks who are the most gentle hearted, soft-spoken, kindest people you&#8217;ll ever know are the ones who post some of the most vile, hateful memes\/ links online?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m talking about people who are leaders in their church.\u00a0 People who rarely &#8211; if ever- use profanity (except in memes apparently).\u00a0 People who would give you the shirt of their backs in a heartbeat and ask for nothing in return.\u00a0 People I would trust to watch my niece or my cat or my bag of gold (if I had one).\u00a0 \u00a0The kind of people you want as friends, neighbors and coworkers.\u00a0 Good, decent people.<\/p>\n<p>Why do an alarming percentage of these folks appear to become raged filled loons online? What is going on in these people&#8217;s minds that short circuits their genuine, deep-seated good natures and lets their arms post things along the lines of &#8220;Michelle Obama is a tranny&#8221; or &#8220;The lizard people running the world are going to start mandating microchipping of humans in 2018&#8221; or anything Alex Jones has ever said?\u00a0 \u00a0And for the record, I am not making ANY of these up. These are all REAL examples from my own personal Facebook feed.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m hoping that by putting this out there I can accomplish one of two things (or both would be great!)<\/p>\n<p>#1 Someone will take the time to REALLY think about what they are posting and how they are presenting themselves online.\u00a0 I know my friends aren&#8217;t hate filled maniacs in spite of their posts, but a potential employer, neighbor, or romantic prospect would see a totally different person, and not a very good one at that.<\/p>\n<p>#2 Someone can explain why this even happens in the first place.\u00a0\u00a0I have no answers.\u00a0 I&#8217;m stumped.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have noticed a disturbing trend on social media- mostly Facebook- that I am truly struggling to understand.\u00a0 I know that I&#8217;m not the only person who&#8217;s noticed it, but no one I&#8217;ve mentioned it to seems to have any kind of explanation for it, so I&#8217;m putting it out for public discussion in the hopes of making some sense&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/?p=1946\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1297,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false},"categories":[23,22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1946","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-issues","category-things-that-make-you-go-huh"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/angry.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1946","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1946"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1946\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1946"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1946"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1946"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}