{"id":4834,"date":"2024-02-12T17:15:00","date_gmt":"2024-02-12T23:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/?p=4834"},"modified":"2024-02-11T18:48:25","modified_gmt":"2024-02-12T00:48:25","slug":"my-valentine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beckypalmer.me\/?p=4834","title":{"rendered":"My Valentine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We are a couple days away from Valentine&#8217;s Day.\u00a0 Since it&#8217;s on a weekday there will be a steady stream of florist vans pulling up to workplaces all across the nation.\u00a0 Of course everyone looks to see who&#8217;s getting the largest bouquet.\u00a0 And I can already tell you it won&#8217;t be me.\u00a0 But I&#8217;m not sad about that.<\/p>\n<p>My husband Pat loves me just as much- probably more- than anyone else&#8217;s husband \/ boyfriend\/ etc. loves them.\u00a0 And I love him that much back.\u00a0 We&#8217;ve been married for almost 18 years and it doesn&#8217;t feel like it&#8217;s been half that.\u00a0 He makes me laugh every day.\u00a0 He&#8217;s my biggest cheerleader.\u00a0 \u00a0He lets me be me.\u00a0 \u00a0He gets me.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m writing this the day of the Super Bowl.\u00a0 \u00a0He got up early on a Sunday to go to a cat show with me.\u00a0 He says he enjoyed it too, and I know he did, but we stayed a lot longer than he would have liked.\u00a0 FYI- there are some UGLY cat breeds out there.\u00a0 Some of them have VERY weird heads.\u00a0 \u00a0Then we went to pick up a keyboard that a classmate of his was giving away because he thought I would like it.\u00a0 Then we went to our favorite BBQ place (Jethro&#8217;s) for lunch.\u00a0 On the way home he told me how much seeing all the purebred cats made him appreciate our three &#8220;mutt cats&#8221; so much more.\u00a0 My heart melted.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday he brought home butterscotch Dilly bars from a local Dairy Queen because they are my favorite.\u00a0 He doesn&#8217;t even like them.<\/p>\n<p>So while yes, I will admit sometimes I get a little jealous when I see a coworker with a dozen long stemmed red roses.\u00a0 But tonight I will be hanging out with 3 favorite kitties and having Jethro&#8217;s wings for supper next to the man who would do anything for me.\u00a0 \u00a0And have a Dilly Bar for dessert.<\/p>\n<p>Happy Valentine&#8217;s Day to me.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are a couple days away from Valentine&#8217;s Day.\u00a0 Since it&#8217;s on a weekday there will be a steady stream of florist vans pulling up to workplaces all across the nation.\u00a0 Of course everyone looks to see who&#8217;s getting the largest bouquet.\u00a0 And I can already tell you it won&#8217;t be me.\u00a0 But I&#8217;m not sad about that. 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