Category Archives: Advice

Am I qualified to give advice? No matter, sometimes I give it anyway!

Be Thankful

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(Almost) every year I post a list of things I’m thankful for this time of year.  After all, that is the point of Thanksgiving!   I’m not going to do that this year, but I am going to write down a list of blessing and I recommend that everyone reading this do the same.  And given all the strife, anger… Read more »

In Memorandum: Thanksgiving

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Remember a little holiday called Thanksgiving?   It was a day to slow down and remember all our blessings.  It was a day to eat too much comfort food and generally relax and recharge with family. However, in recent years those beautiful Thanksgiving traditions are dying a slow and painful death.  Thanksgiving dinner is disappearing because folks too busy getting… Read more »

A woman’s point of view

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I will never fully understand motherhood.  I will never fully understand what it feels like to be treated poorly because of the color of my skin.  And, no man (with the possible exception of transgendered individuals) will ever understand what it’s like to be a woman. Why is this important?  It’s important when discussing two issues that have garnered massive… Read more »

The One I didn’t think I’d ever write

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I have dear friends and family members who are life long Republicans.  I have dear friends and family who are life long Democrats.  I’ve made it perfectly clear over the years that I am in Independent and that I don’t think either party is worth a damn.  I value my right to a private ballot to the point where I don’t… Read more »

Amateur Hour

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I’ve touched on my suspicion of most “alternative” medical treatments in a couple of past posts, most recently in my posts titled Common Scents http://beckypalmer.thecomputerguy.bz/2016/01/common-scents/  and It’s Not that Simple http://beckypalmer.thecomputerguy.bz/2016/02/its-not-that-simple/ I’ve noticed there are a couple quick, simple guidelines that tell me right away I should steer clear of some products: #1 The label says “this product is not designed to… Read more »

Vegas for Grownups

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Because I’m old, I’m still recovering from the trip my husband and I took 2 weeks ago to Vegas.  It was an amazing trip and lots of people have asked what was the best part.  That is a really hard question to answer because there were so many highlights! However, since so many people have asked, I’ve decided that I… Read more »

5 Things I Wish I had Known When I Started Blogging

First of all, I am not and will not ever claim to be an expect on blogging.  I’ve done this on and off since 2009 and some days I feel just as clueless as I did the day I wrote my first post.  However, through trial and error, reading approximately 3 million articles on the subject, and through my awesome… Read more »

Sleep like a what?

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I think we can all agree that “sleep like a baby” is a silly expression.  Babies sleep for a couple of hours at a time tops.  Babies usually wet themselves in their sleep.  Babies need to sleep on the backs (or whatever position is fashionable this week).  NO ONE wants to sleep like that! What you really want is to… Read more »

Expert advice

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Several weeks ago actress Lena Dunham made headlines when she announced she would be taking some time out of the spotlight to get treatment for her endometriosis.    She was widely praised for being so open about a condition that some folks still find hard to discuss in public. I’m sure she didn’t, but if Lena had decided to read… Read more »