Category Archives: Advice

Am I qualified to give advice? No matter, sometimes I give it anyway!

Self-Care For Less!

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One thing everyone can agree on is that it’s hard to find joy in today’s world. The cost of health care, food, and everything else keep going up.  National and international politics are a shit show.   The planet is becoming less and less hospitable to human life.  The list goes on. Yet in spite of all of this, we do… Read more »

National Plan for Vacation Day

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Here in Iowa it’s the middle of winter, so it’s a great time to think ahead to your next vacation! Whether you are dreaming of a tropical destination, visiting family in another region, or even a staycation in your own hometown, planning a vacation is a feel- good activity.  In fact, it’s been proven that planning a vacation releases more… Read more »

Let’s Celebrate!

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I talked quite a bit about politics before the election.  And I’m probably going to talk about them again quite a bit after the holidays. But I have decided that I’m not going to bring everyone down during the month of December with gloom and doom.  This is the month of of holidays, celebration, and cheer.  This is the month… Read more »

Sweat the Small Stuff

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Well, maybe not exactly.  We need to celebrate the small stuff. The world is scary.  There are conflicts between nations that threaten to bring the entire planet into war.  Climate change is causing bigger natural disasters.  Neo-Nazis are popping up all over the world.  In the US there are many fears what the next four years will bring- even among… Read more »

They Are Coming!

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Who/ what is coming?  The holidays!  No matter your religion or ethnicity, there are holidays between now and the end of the year.  In a perfect world, we would observe holidays with people who love us unconditionally- be they biological family or chosen family. Alas, we do not live in a perfect world.  Families might be scattered across the country… Read more »

The Write Way and the Wrong Way

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Cursive handwriting needs to go the way of the dodo bird.  This is the hill I will die on. I have mentioned this a couple times before-  like here https://beckypalmer.me/?p=4510   and here https://beckypalmer.me/?p=4718 .   Simply put, it is not a skill that children need to learn in 2024.  I will go so far as to say we never should have had… Read more »

Do You Have a Plan?

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You’ve probably heard this a lot lately- you need to make a plan to vote. Some people will laugh at this, but they shouldn’t. It seems pretty simple if you live in a rural area.  You probably have your own car, your polling place has been in the same location for as long as you can remember, and the lines… Read more »