Category Archives: Advice

Am I qualified to give advice? No matter, sometimes I give it anyway!

Thank God for Football

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The national news is rough right now. What’s happening in Minnesota is illegal, unconstitutional, unethical—and really scary. I do take some comfort in watching people stand up for what’s right, but sometimes the healthiest thing I can do is step away from the constant stream of headlines for my own sanity. Enter: the NFL playoffs. Few things can hold my… Read more »

Getting Lippy

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I’ve had a lip balm on me at all times since college.  I’m more likely to leave my house without my phone than I am without at least one on my person.  One of “lame claims to fame” is that I have completely used up more than one tubes of lip balm before I lost it.  I had no idea… Read more »

We Made It!

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If you are reading this it means that you have survived the dumpster fire that was 2025 (Ok technically there a 2 days left, but close enough!!). We’ve survived weird weather.  We’ve survived earthquakes.  We’ve survived wildfires.  We’ve survived Katy Perry going to space.  We’ve survived multiple tragic murders of public figures. We’ve survived rising prices, international embarrassments, and the… Read more »

Sharing the Spirit of the Season

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All over the world people are looking forward to celebrating holidays in the second half of December.  Some are religious, such as Hannukah or Bodhi Day.  Some are not, such as the Winter Solstice and New Years.   And of course we have Christmas which can be both. But not everyone has family to celebrate with.   Some people have moved across… Read more »

The Best Books I Read This Year

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reading in bed

In case you hadn’t heard- book clubs – along with good old-fashioned books- are back! I made the decision to get more books and less screens in my life a while back and I’m so glad I did.  If you missed that you can read about that here https://beckypalmer.me/?p=4856    And yes I have joined the book club at my library!… Read more »

In Defense of the Marching Band

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The marching band is a running joke.  It’s supposedly where the freaks, geeks, and other assorted losers hang out.   Mention it and you’ll likely get NSWF quotes from the American Pie movie series. Full disclosure- I didn’t march myself when I was a kid.  My high school band director hated marching when he was a kid and swore he wouldn’t… Read more »

How to Talk on the Phone

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There’s an epidemic sweeping the world.   It’s gotten so bad that businesses have had to add signage trying to stem the tide.  What started as a lazy editing trick for second rate reality TV shows has now become the bane of polite society. So we all need to go back to school and re-learn something we never should have forgotten-… Read more »