Category Archives: Advice

Am I qualified to give advice? No matter, sometimes I give it anyway!

National Sit With a Stranger Day

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Today is a very important day.  It’s Sit with a Stranger Day. This day was designed to get people out of their bubbles and talking to people they wouldn’t otherwise.  I have long said this is important and as 2025 drags on we have more examples every day why. We are all guilty of living in silos.  We gravitate toward… Read more »

5 Things that Made Me Smile Last Week

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These days it’s easy to either become completely engulfed in the bad news of the world and feel hopeless.  It’s also easy to just crawl into a hole and pretend nothing is happening. I don’t recommend either of those approaches.  I think you need a balance of staying informed, but you also need to disengage and remind yourself about all… Read more »

Silence of the Happily Coupled

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Have you ever been out to eat or anywhere else in a public setting and saw a couple sitting silently, both using their phones?  I’m sure you have, and you probably felt sorry for them and assumed their relationship was in trouble.    That is certainly possible, but it’s also possible that their relationship is rock solid. My husband and… Read more »

3 Ways to Make Your Mornings Better (and the 2 I Actually Do)

I am not a morning person.  Never have been, never will be.  For around 18 months I had a job that required me to be at the office at 6am and I had about a 35 minute commute.  Everyone told me I would get used to it.  Nope.  I just got used to feeling like crap every day. Fast forward… Read more »

Marriage Isn’t Hard—If You’re Actually Ready for It

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“Marriage is hard” “Marriage is a lot of work” “Marriage is useless in a modern society” I’ve heard all of these things lately.  Mostly from married people.  And I disagree with all of them. You might be expecting me to agree that marriage is difficult given that my first marriage did not last.  There are a lot of reasons why… Read more »

Self-Care For Less!

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One thing everyone can agree on is that it’s hard to find joy in today’s world. The cost of health care, food, and everything else keep going up.  National and international politics are a shit show.   The planet is becoming less and less hospitable to human life.  The list goes on. Yet in spite of all of this, we do… Read more »