Category Archives: Myself

Figuring out who I am

Little Hills I Will Die On

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I’ve spent plenty of time talking about big issues that are important to and I will continue to do so.  Things like support for the LBGTQ+ community, mental health awareness, and what Christianity is all about. Today is not one of those days.  Today is about the smaller issues that I’m far too passionate about.  The things that make no… Read more »

Duluth from a New Perspective

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Over Memorial weekend I took a quick trip to my favorite place to visit- Duluth Minnesota. I have waxed poetic about this place many, many times. Like here https://beckypalmer.me/?p=2497  and here https://beckypalmer.me/?p=3674  .  You get the picture.  I’ve written about this place a lot and I’ve gone there even more. But this last trip was a little different. First of all,… Read more »

Mythbusters is on Again and That’s OK

My comfort show is MythBusters. Not Friends. Not The Office.  Certainly not Gilmore Girls.   I want to watch people in safety glasses blow up a cement truck and then explain, calmly, what they learned. I have watched every episode more times than I can count and yes, I will continue to rewatch them over and over again. My other comfort… Read more »

Oh Fiddlesticks

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There are millions of jokes  about women turning into their mothers.  I assume these jokes are almost as old as motherhood itself. I am not worried about turning into my mother at all.   I don’t look anything like her or anyone on her side of the family.  I am not a mother of humans (just cats).  We have wildly difference… Read more »

Make Along

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My mother had a saying I heard a lot as a child whenever we were out and about. It was “make along.” As in, whatever you’re feeling right now, this is not the place. Smile. Be pleasant. Don’t cry in public. Don’t air grievances. Don’t make it weird by having a visible reaction to anything. What would people think? I… Read more »

If Black Pants Are Wrong, I Don’t Want to Be Right

I recently had a long conversation with a couple coworkers about what I thought were the most common thing on Earth- black pants.   Half of my pants are black and I assumed that this was just normal. Apparently not.  2 of the 4 people in the conversation claimed to not own a single part of black pants.  NONE.   Not a… Read more »

The Best Books I Read This Year

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reading in bed

In case you hadn’t heard- book clubs – along with good old-fashioned books- are back! I made the decision to get more books and less screens in my life a while back and I’m so glad I did.  If you missed that you can read about that here https://beckypalmer.me/?p=4856    And yes I have joined the book club at my library!… Read more »

Things I’m Too Tired to Care About Anymore

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I’m physically tired- it’s been a very good but very busy week and I’m still recovering.   I’m also mentally tired.   The government shut down has caused a sharp uptick in the political memes online which gets old fast, and just living in the shitstorm that is the US right now takes a lot of a person.   So the list of… Read more »