Category Archives: Advice

Am I qualified to give advice? No matter, sometimes I give it anyway!

They Are Coming!

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Who/ what is coming?  The holidays!  No matter your religion or ethnicity, there are holidays between now and the end of the year.  In a perfect world, we would observe holidays with people who love us unconditionally- be they biological family or chosen family. Alas, we do not live in a perfect world.  Families might be scattered across the country… Read more »

The Write Way and the Wrong Way

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Cursive handwriting needs to go the way of the dodo bird.  This is the hill I will die on. I have mentioned this a couple times before-  like here https://beckypalmer.me/?p=4510   and here https://beckypalmer.me/?p=4718 .   Simply put, it is not a skill that children need to learn in 2024.  I will go so far as to say we never should have had… Read more »

Do You Have a Plan?

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You’ve probably heard this a lot lately- you need to make a plan to vote. Some people will laugh at this, but they shouldn’t. It seems pretty simple if you live in a rural area.  You probably have your own car, your polling place has been in the same location for as long as you can remember, and the lines… Read more »

Global Handwashing Day

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Today we are all reminded of one of the simplest, easiest things we can do to avoid getting sick- wash our hands frequently and well. This holiday was created in 2008 as part of a global children’s heath initiative, but of course we can all benefit from a reminder. Now go wash your hands.

Practicing Gratitude

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I apologize for last week’s post.  I was in a mood.  But for the record, the issues I raised are all real.  I just didn’t need to present them in that exact way. This week we are turning 180 degrees and talking about gratitude. “Practicing gratitude” became fashionable during COVID.  It seemed like every celebrity was talking about their gratitude… Read more »

What Do You Know?

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There are a lot of things I don’t know. I don’t know why anyone still supports Donald Trump in 2024 I don’t know exactly how airplanes work (don’t bother trying to explain it to me.  Several engineers have with no success). I don’t know the names of the leader of 95% of the world’s countries. I could go on, but… Read more »

Stop Saying That

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WE DO NOT SAY HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY. I REPEAT- WE DO NOT SAY HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY!! Memorial Day is not a happy day.  It is a day to remember those who lost their lives in military service.  Every single one of those people who lost their lives had people who loved them.  They had parents.  They have friends.  Maybe they… Read more »

Unclear on the Offensive

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I’m sure you’ve seen this on social media.  It’s usually in giant font and it reads “I saw something online that I was offended by and I just scrolled by” followed by something snarky. There are two possible explanations why someone who share this, and neither are very good. The first is that this person shares things that really are… Read more »