You Do You (Holiday Edition)

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I’ve kind of known for having strong opinions on small things.  Among them are early holiday decorations and well, lots of things about holidays.  See also here  https://beckypalmer.me/?p=4733 But I’m over that now. Go ahead and put up your Christmas tree in June. Celebrate Halloween in August. Take Valentine’s Day way too seriously. There are so many shitty things happening in… Read more »

National Sit With a Stranger Day

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Today is a very important day.  It’s Sit with a Stranger Day. This day was designed to get people out of their bubbles and talking to people they wouldn’t otherwise.  I have long said this is important and as 2025 drags on we have more examples every day why. We are all guilty of living in silos.  We gravitate toward… Read more »

5 Things that Made Me Smile Last Week

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These days it’s easy to either become completely engulfed in the bad news of the world and feel hopeless.  It’s also easy to just crawl into a hole and pretend nothing is happening. I don’t recommend either of those approaches.  I think you need a balance of staying informed, but you also need to disengage and remind yourself about all… Read more »

10 Even More Even More Facts You Probably Don’t Know About Me

It’s been a hot minute since I’ve done one of these so let’s get right to it! #1 I am allergic to cats.  I take Allegra every day year round and I am used to my own cats.  But other cats make me sneeze and make my eyes itch like crazy.  But I want to meet them all anyway! #2… Read more »

Silence of the Happily Coupled

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Have you ever been out to eat or anywhere else in a public setting and saw a couple sitting silently, both using their phones?  I’m sure you have, and you probably felt sorry for them and assumed their relationship was in trouble.    That is certainly possible, but it’s also possible that their relationship is rock solid. My husband and… Read more »