I’m selfish

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Or at least that’s what I’ve been told recently.  Apparently my and my husband’s joint decision to not procreate was purely about our own selfish needs.  Never mind if we donate time and money to charities.  Never mind if we have great relationships with our younger family members.  Never mind if we didn’t think we’d be good parents. Never mind… Read more »

In Defense of Men

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Turn on any TV sitcom.  Almost without fail the dad is clueless and clumsy and the mom is smart and sophisticated.  And that couple’s daughters will be smarter than their sons to boot! Read any women’s magazine.  You’ll find this month’s tips on getting that clueless boyfriend or spouse you have to help you out around the house, make nice… Read more »

Welcome to my new and (hopefully) improved blog!

After quite a lot of thought- probably too much- I have decided that a blog reboot is in order.  I am hopeful that this reboot will help me focus my ideas a little more and actually blog more than one a quarter.  I intend to focus on marriage and family related topics, but nothing’s off limits.  And speaking of off… Read more »

I do? Or don’t I?

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Once again I’ve taken a longer than intended hiatus from blogging.  I wish I had a really good excuse, but I don’t other than that I don’t really want my blog to be entirely about marriage.   I don’t consider myself any sort of expert on the topic, yet it seems like most of my recent posts and ideas I’ve… Read more »

Conservative Thought

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So, after several months of blogger’s block I finally got inspiration from the oddest of places- Twitter. And what’s the topic? “What is a conservative?” This may seem like an odd topic for a self-professed moderate Independent. But I grew up in a very conservative family. My uncle was Minnesota First District Republication chairman for several years and in fact… Read more »

Rapid Fire Segment

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Once again it’s time for our favorite game- Multi Mini Blog Fest! First up, I don’t understand Occupy Wall Street at all. Are the protesters suggesting we all grow our own food, make our own clothes and live off the land? I welcome serious, civil explanations only. Weddings are getting out of hand. Couples are taking out HUGE loans to… Read more »

Where were you?

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It seems like everywhere you turn today people are asking “Where were you 10 years ago today?” My simple answer is that I was in my car on my way to work. I heard it on the radio and called him to have my then-husband turn on the TV and give me more info than the small town country station… Read more »

Writer’s Block?

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First of all, I apologize for the long dry spell. August was very busy and just sort of got away from me without inspiration.With that in mind, my next statement will sound even crazier than normal.I have been thinking a lot lately about writing a book. For several years I have had one or two scenes very vividly in mind… Read more »

My thoughts on Alpocalypce by Weird Al Yankovic

I’ve been a Weird Al fan for decades. Not only is he funny but he’s a really talented musician and song writer. Sadly, because of his chosen genre he doesn’t get the credit he deserves for either of these very real talents. Last week I got my very own copy of his newest album “Alpocalypse” and I have been enjoying… Read more »