Category Archives: Advice

Am I qualified to give advice? No matter, sometimes I give it anyway!

Last Call?

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A few years ago my husband Pat chose to stop drinking alcohol.  His reasons for stopping are his own to share, but I can assure you he did not have a drinking problem.  Pat is fine with me having an occasional cocktail.  He is fine with anyone drinking in moderation- he just chooses not to himself. I think most people… Read more »

Change Your Password Day

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Are you like me?  Do you have, like, 3 passwords that you use for everything even thought EVERYONE tells you it’s a bad idea?  Then today is for you. Please just do it.  Yes, it’s a huge pain in the ass.  Yes, it’s hard to think of new passwords all the time.  But it’s important. So just do it.

Spouse’s Day

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Today is Spouse’s Day! It’s easy to start to take your spouse for granted after you’ve been together for a long time.  They’ve just always been there. Everyone wants to feel wanted and appreciated. You do, so of course your spouse does too. You don’t have to make a grand gesture today.  Maybe you just tell them something you love… Read more »

The Last Conversation

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Recently my husband asked me for my Social Security number.  This isn’t too weird, but unusual enough that I asked why.  Turns out it was because he was going to an informational class about preplanning his funeral/ cremation (still not 100% sure why he needed my SSN for that, but that’s neither here nor there). He’s only 57 and swears… Read more »

Top 10 Reasons to Vote Republican

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November 8th is just around the corner.  Maybe you’re struggling with deciding how to vote.  Lucky you- I’m here to help! Here are a list of reasons to vote Republican: #1 You hate minorities.  You don’t say it out load (usually) but you suspect anyone with a skin tone darker than Sherwin Williams color 7036 (Accessible Beige) is an illegal,… Read more »

The Oddest Coupling is the Dumbest

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It’s no secret that Americans are very divided on politics.  I wish I knew how to fix that, but I don’t.  I don’t think anyone does. But now politics are showing up in all kinds of places that politics don’t belong.  Conspiracies and other kinds of crazy talk are popping up in the silliest places imaginable. Some of the dumber… Read more »

What Women Want

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It’s been said since the dawn of time that men are simple and women are complicated. But that’s really not true.  Women aren’t complicated, men just aren’t very good at listening to them.  Let me break it down for you. #1 Women want full body autonomy.  We want to be able to make our own decisions about our own bodies,… Read more »

Be Quiet?

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There is a new phrase sweeping the interwebs- “quiet quitting”.  Depending on who you listen to, this is either a logical response be being overworked and underpaid, or the work of Satan itself and yet another sign that young people are lazy.  As is almost always the case, the truth is somewhere in the middle. I’m offering a different perspective… Read more »